F-Listed's Sexpert Q&A: How to Give Your Penis the Happy Ending It Deserves

Q - Hi, I may be a little to young, but I am 15 years old, and I have a girlfriend. I have been dating this girl for the past 3 years, and we have had sex 4 times. Sex has been great, but there is one problem. Sometimes I feel really uncomfortable when we’re having sex, and I never “finish,” while she does. Any advice?

Click for more!

F-Listed's Sexpert Q&A: How To Get Better Head

Q – Ok miss expert, if a girl is giving you head, but you’ve had better, what would be the least insulting way to put that? Only twice have I had the kinda head where I didn’t feel I need to get involved at all, but lately its like either they don’t think about men having sensitive areas and just think we like the whole thing swallowed for some reason. (And trust me, I have tried the whole hint like ‘yeah like that’ but they just change it up!!! Or they really do just forget about the teeth rule!!!)

Click for more!

F-Listed Sexpert Q&A: How to Make a Good Girl Reveal Her Wild Side- PART 1

Q - This was a very informative post, one only dare to wonder how well you take care of your man , but I digress. Basically my question is, how do you actually get a woman to be comfortable enough to express herself so profoundly with you? I mean, is it just a matter of being patient and waiting the years it may require for her to get to this level, or is there some proactive measure you can take to speed things along? Please advise.

Several of you have written me after last week’s Hump Wednesdays post inquiring on how to make one’s female partner channel their inner “bad girl” so that she is willing to share her profoundest sexual secrets and desires with you. This can be tricky, and there are several different elements to this, but I would say that it pretty much balls down to trust, confidence, and turning control over to the woman.

Learn the specifics in 3…2…1….

Click for more!

F-Listed Sexpert Q&A: Pleasuring a Man's Chocolate Starfish

Q – So I’d never even thought about my anus being a pleasure zone until a girlfriend years back went down below and started munching and it felt pretty damn good. So what’s your take (or your girlfriends) on playing with a man’s– as you put it– ‘chocolate starfish’? What’s the most you’ve done, and/or would be willing to do that you might find arousing? Does it still seem pretty taboo? Thanks.

This is a great question and I’m happy you asked!  It seems to me that when this topic comes up in conversation, even with the closest of friends, people suddenly become uncomfortable and aren’t as candid they would normally be talking about their sex lives. Their definitely is a negative undertone when it comes to anything dealing with the rear, which is such a foreign idea to me. Have we so quickly forgotten that just some years ago the media fad was for starlets to flash their fish tacos to the cameras? If we allowed ourselves to promote such classless behavior, why must it be taboo for us to express that which turns our healthy sexual appetites on?

Click for more!

F-Listed Sexpert Q&A: Interracial Dating & How Long It Takes to Make Whoopie (Not Goldberg)

In a world where talking about sex is as taboo as it is to talk about religion and politics, I think having a healthy sexual appetite and knowing the way things work in the world of sex, drugs, and rock ‘n’ roll can only be of greater assistance to society, than a downfall.

It is for this reason that I encourage all of you to e-mail me at mmartinez@flisted.com with whatever questions you may have and I will try to the best of my Rican abilities to answer them for all of you. No questions are off limits!

Let’s use this opportunity to ask and discuss that sex Q&As that no one else has the cojones to answer. I encourage everyone to use the comment section and forum as places to discuss a very important part of human lives: s-e-x. Because if we don’t do it, who else will?

Check out last week’s Q&A’s here. New Q’s this way >>>

Click for more!

F-Listed Sexpert Q&A: Female Virgins into S&M and Men Curious About Squirting & Bum Sex

Over the past few weeks some of you boys and girls have reached out with some sex and relationship questions, and I thought it would be nice to share your questions so that all of us can learn and benefit from the conversation. If any of you have any questions or thoughts they’d like to share, feel free to hit me up at mmartinez@flisted.com. Nothing is off limits! (And yes, that is me with the corndogs. What can I say, I’m a classy girl!)

Read reader submitted questions in 3…2…1…

Click for more!