Pick Up Lesson #6: Sexy Is Defined

Never before F-Listed, would I mull over why something worked with a girl or why it didn’t. I didn’t care. I was just doing my thing, which works, so I never questioned it.

The fact is that the moment I started thinking more about it, I went into a little slump. I couldn’t be as clever or fun, because it was like I was forcing myself.

Girls are attracted to all the things that make a man, so don’t try to act like you think they’d want you to act. Be a shoulder for them to cry on, a rock for them to stand on, and a voice of reason and laughter, and you will also be the pole that they ride on.

Any guy in the original Rat Pack (Sinatra, Brando, etc.) is a great example of saying what you believe and letting the rest take care of itself.

Taking a step back and letting my true thoughts come out is the best thing that has happened to my game.It is the SOLE reason that I was able to have a girl in my room AND my guest room at the same time, last night, without either caring and then all three of us ending up in the same bed. (No threesome action, sadly. I was quite satisfied at that point, though.)

I merely used a typically introduction, talked to one of them for a while, when it got later, I proposed a scenery change (my house). The other one, I can’t take much from, because she’s always calling. BUT, she always calls, because I’m real with her, so she finds comfort in that, even if I’m not making any committment, besides committing to do it good.