Pick-Up Tip #3: Strike While the Iron is Hot

Why does a cameraman have to wait for hours, possibly days to take the right picture? Or a baseball player, for the right pitch? An animal for it’s prey? Timing. All three have learned to master their timing of the moment of action. They might even be able to move around and position themselves better, attaining more opportunities.

Most of you probably care as little as I do about this holiday, but it’s not for us. It’s for the girls. And it’s 3 & 1/2 weeks away. Yes, V-day. No, not Virgin Day. Valentine’s Day. (Of course, if a girl is going to lose swipe the V-card, there’s a good chance it’s going to be on this day, but I am far too old to think about V-cards.)

Oh, Valentine’s Day. The holiday that Hallmark created, women cherish, and guys must recognize, or else! Well, for this young single guy, Valentine’s Day means no inhibitions, lower standards, and sheer vulnerability. It’s like New Year’s, Prom, or a birthday. It’s one day that you know most girls are determined to not sleep alone.

There will be more about this day of days to come, but the point is to take your chances when you can.

Creating opportunities for comfortable interactions and taking advantage of those opportunities becomes an essential tool, once you learn how to close with women. The movie “Wedding Crashers” is a great example of creating opportunities and capitalizing on them. Think of some ideas of how you can meet girls outside of your typical setting, where girls will not have barriers up, like they do in a club/bar. It could increase your bedroom traffic more than driving a sports car!

An example:

If a girl is dancing by herself or watching her friends dance. She wants to dance! Asking a girl to dance is the best thing you can do for your dawg, without really knowing it. Whether she starts grinding on you, another girl sees you, or you just get in the comfort-zone, you are handicapping yourself if you don’t try. And, sometimes the worse you are, the better for you, because she will feel comfortable!

It sounds so easy, because it really can be, once you get past yourself! Create opportunities and capitalize on them!

The following excerpt goes with the above picture, from ejectejecteject.com is about baseball, but relates to the art of attraction as well:

BASEBALL

The ability to hit a baseball is what separates Americans from Animals and Socialists. It has been often said that there is no more difficult task in sports, for the very best practitioners in history are successful less than 4 times out of ten.

This ability to measure real success in the face of repeated failure is a core element of the Ideal American; therefore, we recommend that all Ideal Americans be able to hit a flying sphere with a wooden or aluminum stick.

Carefully note this photograph taken of the conforming prototype at age eleven:

Observe the level of concentration and focus, required to connect with a 22mph fastball in the face of intense ‘hey batter batter batter batter SWING batter!’ countermeasures from the opposing dugout.

However, even more important to the success of your Ideal American is the inculcation of a sense of commitment and duty required by team sports.