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Snatch Talk Thursday with Tracy Lynne
Hello and welcome back my loyal Snatch Talkers…
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Today’s topic was inspired by an F-Listed reader. It is a question that plagues both women and men trust me!
Here’s the email I received.
Hey T.L-
When a man is taken; why is it that women seem to want him more than when
he is single? I don’t get the idea of wanting something you can’t have,
especially if it would ruin someone’s relationship. When you are single, no one
really seems to have much interest in you. There must be some kind of glow a
person gives off, that leads one to believe they are in a relationship. A happy
glow if you will. I guess it really isn’t only women, but men as well that do
this. What are your thoughts?
RB
I must admit that I often ask myself “Why are all the good men taken”. Usually this is because I’m comparing the men I meet to the husbands of my friends and family. Being taken does definitely boost your attractiveness to many women….and this is why:
First of all, simply put- taken men don’t act as desperate as single men. I don’t know about other places but when I go to a club in New York and see a bunch of overly tanned men with shaved chests, booty grinding- I throw up a little in my mouth.
Secondly women are competitive and crazy b*tches (said with the greatest amount of love and respect for my fellow women) Women are more sensitive to the choices made by other women. A married man has already been chosen as a suitable mate by at least one other female and this man has indicated by getting married that he wishes a long term relationship. For women, these are desirable traits in a man.
So guys, next time a woman says that all the good men are taken, let her know that you are looking for a long term relationship as well and maybe she’ll change her mind. (Fake wedding rings work too)
So I gave you my opinion from a woman’s point of view and now I want yours…
Do you find taken women more sexy? And girls…ever fooled around with a married man?
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Ok, ok. That also makes perfect sense for a woman. You see something that you know is already “approved” relationship material and you desire it as well. I get that. As for men though, I believe that some men just don’t care if they are with someone or not, they just WANT. Some do care, but then seem to care more about their wants than anything else. I do not believe that guys think that deeply, on if a woman is taken that she has been “approved” as relationship material, simply because most guys are not in it for a relationship. GUYS ARE DOGS, we all know it, but there are those select few who have “corazons”! So I believe for guys, its just a matter of attraction, and not anything further than that. Just my opinion though…..
Thanks for the Snatch Talk Thirtsday!
Hope you have a great weekend…!
RB
OK here’s my take from a male perspective:
The worst thing you can do is try to hook up with women who already got a man in their life…You have men out there who make this a lifestyle. I must admit, Yes the whole forbidden thing can be very attractive. But it’s too much trouble and at the end of the day you only hurt yourself. You become jealous and you can’t even trust yourself anymore, and trust is everything in a relationship. I mean, almost every time your girlfriend talk to another man you become suspicious. You think he’s just like you. That son of a bitch wants my girlfriend. Why is this dude smiling? Why is he talking to MY CHICK?? and you act like a jealous fool asking her all types of silly questions when you get back home. It’s almost like cheating. When you cheat a lot you assume everybody’s guilty of the same behavior especially your partner. Nobody wants to be in a realtionship with some dude who’s jealous and don’t trust his girlfriend only because he doesn’t trust himself. How I know this..Well, I’ve been there done that and that’s why I never go for a woman who’s already taken anymore.
But to answer your question: Do I find taken women more sexy?? When I’m single YES, but I don’t try anything. I keep that to myself and make it a fantasy nowadays..that’s a lot better LOL.
What about you Tracy..have you ever been with a married man?
I have never, and would never go out with a taken or married man. To me integrity and honesty are everything and I wouldn’t even be attracted to a man who would look at me while he’s in a relationship. I’m also one of the select few women who like to know NOTHING about a mans past relationships. So seeing him with someone else and then pursuing him wouldn’t work for me.
I definitely agree with the guilty conscious thing…it’s so true that you always assume other people are being dishonest when you are being dishonest yourself. It is a very unhealthy place to be and I’m glad I’ve grown out of all of those games.
Thanks for your input…it’s always appreciated…and as a woman it’s very interesting to hear your point of view:)
Love Tracy
I have hooked up with a married man or 2 both on accident and on purpose. My take on it is that I am a dog! I do not want a relationship, just sex so married men are a good choice because they are not going to leave their wives!
@Tracy Lynne
Thanks…Have a nice weekend! See you next week!
Ok…Z-A-B-I-N-E…just wrote it down on my people not to invite to my wedding list…lol..
Cant wait David…this will be our 3rd date…
LOL you know the 3rd date is always the best date!!