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Hump Wednesdays: Male Ass-Licking Etiquette
Alright, I have a question for you males. A close girlfriend and I were talking about our sexual likes and dislikes when we started talking about ass licking.
Both her and I agreed that, whether or not it kinda makes us blush, tossing salad is one of those kinky things you kinda wish you didn’t like so much, but in the end it’s just too good to deny.
Then we started thinking, ‘Well, if it feels good for us, then it must feel good for guys, too. Right?’ Aside from the fact that most women wouldn’t do it anyway because there’s no way most of you would ever dare wax your crack (and who the hell wants to dig into a hairy asshole?), is this something guys even enjoy?
Just a thought, and we’d love to hear your feedback. Ladies, you too. Remember, you have the ability to post comments anonymously, so it’s not like anyone will ever find out!
What do you say, yay or nay?
I would be up for it. The thought of waxing my ass is painful. Nothing gay about it though, like most guys think.
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Once guys are comfortable and confident about their sexuality this is one of the biggest turn ons for them. It stimulates certain areas much more intense then for us girls.
i love your blogs, for real girl ! thats why i just have to leave a comment about ass licking. i have a boyfriend and we basicly have tried everything but the piss shower (i just hate the fucking smell of urine, such a turn off) anyway, since he is so into licking my ass (and i loves loves loves it) i promised to do the same and after I HAVE SHAVED him (so fresh and so clean clean) i gave him a lil tongue dance around his asshole…and after dipping my finger in vaseline i´ve sticked in and since that day he is begging me for this shit 24h a day. like i said me loves it loves it loves it
nina….
ur man is borderline gay….I get the licking part…but the vaseline, and thefact that he liked that better than the licking..is a problem..u might wanna watch his ass..he might start sneaking into bath houses any day now….fugdesicles…lmao
actually dear pageywaigey all guys fuckin love it when girls stick some shit up their asses but the problem is that u´ll never ever will find a “straight” guy admitting this shit and i suggest u shouldnt do this do someone u just met. u really gotta know this person well to feel comfortable e.g. long time bf..? (remember that sex & city episode where miranda had fingered a guy and he totally loved it and then the next day she whispered in his ear how much she enjoyed doin it and he freaked out and said he aint a fag and then left her cuz he was too ashamed that he really enjoyed it?) i mean c´mon cant we shove a tiny finger up the ass without fearing being a homo, bi or anything else….c´mon its just A FINGER and not a strap on dildo….now that would be even too kinky for me…after all being in a long relationship its the lil kinky shit that keeps the sexuality alive. peace and out
Men LOVE it, but few will admit it. Biologically speaking, the “perenium” (the space between the balls & the a-hole) is a man’s most sensitive erotic zone…
I’ve had a couple of gf’s that ate my ass, one when we were 69′ing, the other was sitting on a couch blowing me and I asked her to. Standing there watching her get into frenchin’ my doughnut hole was pretty hot. In both cases, it was a pleasant enough feeling, but I never really asked them to repeat the act. If you’re involved with someone long enough, it just seems natural at some point for them to head south and wet the blowhole.
yup absinthe78 thats excatly what i am talkin about. guys are so damn insecured these days that a lil ass action makes them say: please dont tell anybody…dont worry i wont…let the camera speak for it self….(i kid i kid). u guys dont be afraid to tell us that u like that ass action…cuz there are some girls out there who seriously wont judge ur sexuality or manhood just cuz u like some banana there where the sun dont shine..i like bananas too. specially when they´re warm….hmmm..try it bitches!! u goin to love it. ok gotta go back to work and pretend to be a good good employee which i am (HA! of course NOT!! like duh!)
@Nina
Stop this nonsense! Trust me…not ALL men love it. I think it’s safe to say that majority of men don’t like it. This is just wishful thinking from women who thinks it’s a turn on to lick and finger their boyfriend’s ass.
Hey, guess what, shit comes out of the ass. Here’s what you can look forward to:
Here’s a rundown of some of the diseases you could be exposed to when eating ass:
Hepatitis A: Hepatitis A is a virus spread through oral contact with the fecal matter of an infected person. It affects the liver and causes symptoms such as jaundice, fatigue, and nausea. It is not a chronic infection, unlike hepatitis C. Hepatitis A can be prevented with a vaccine given before or shortly after exposure.
E. coli: This is a bacterial infection spread through oral contact with the fecal matter of an infected person. Its symptoms include diarrhea, vomiting, and intestinal bleeding.
Intestinal parasites: These are microbial organisms that cause intestinal diseases including cryptosporidiosis, dysentery, and giardiasis. Symptoms include diarrhea, fever, and stomach pain. Again, these are spread through oral contact with the fecal matter of an infected person.
Bacterial infections: If a person contracts food poisoning, the bacteria that causes it, say salmonella for example, will be shed in their feces and could be transmitted through oral-anal contact. Symptoms include diarrhea and vomiting.
Other STDs: If the receiving partner has a rectal gonorrhea infection, it could be contracted by the active partner; gonorrhea can infect the mouth and throat. This means that theoretically a person with an oral gonorrhea infection could transmit it to the ass that they’re eating. Other STDs that can be transmitted through oral-anal contact include syphilis and herpes, if either partner has an active lesion in their mouth or anal area.
HIV Risk?
@Jim Liu
wow, ummm I was just gonna say thats nasty but u backed it up much better lol
My now, ex-boyfriend, LOVED getting his salad tossed. He didn’t have a hairy hole nor did he wax. He was very much a man. No problem with his sexuality, he said it just felt amazing. He is an asshole though.
Anal! Anal! its all good.
Jim Liu…
I always go down on a chick’s backdoor…to me its just the other end of her throat.
I don’t think it’s safe to say most men HATE it, b/c most men haven’t tried it… Most men are so afraid of the appearance of homosexuality, they won’t even let themselves figure out what they like & what they don’t. Yes, there are potential health risks, but there are with basically any sexual act… and with any normal human contact. I’ve never licked a man’s ass, nor do I have any immediate plans to do so, but the whole thing is to be healthy & clean… if ur messing with dirty sick ppl, you’re gonna get something, ass or no.
PS: I’ve had my ass licked, and when it’s done by someone who is really into it, it’s glorious.
I love tossing a clean woman asshole!!! Any volunteers?
I love wok4real. LOL!
I’m a straight male and I’ll be the first to admit that I like to toss as well as get tossed, but any dude that “asks” you to stick something up his ass has some browneye issues. Either the niggas gay or getting close to experimenting.
WoW ! I Luv Eatin Phat ass
@ Margarita jones
I don’t think its the “appearance” of being homosexual that most men are worried about. It’s only one thing that makes a man gay and that is actually having a sexual encounter with another man. So as long as its done by a woman then there’s nothing gay about it… right? I’ll admit i have had my salad tossed by a girl who just happened to really like doing it and was really good at it! I did enjoy it but its not something i would do again. Not because i’m insecure or whatever else you may want to call me but because its simply not something that turns me on or excites me. On the other hand i have no problem with licking ass myself. I love a woman’s body and i’m all for exploring every inch and curve of it. There is not a place on a woman’s body that i would not lick(assuming its the right girl)
p.s. @nina
you must know a lot of gay guys, because there is not one straight male in the world you likes getting things stuck up his ass! That’s about as gay as it gets you’re either really nieve or just plain crazy if you believe anything different!
For sure, I love it and most guys do it too. The nick name for ass-kissing is called “rimming”. It’s still one of those taboos just like anal sex. However, unlike with anal sex, you don’t necessarily have engage in this activity slowly over time to properly enjoy it. Rimming is an awesome sensation and for most guys, even though they won’t admit it, they enjoy a prostate massage because their G spot is in the prostate.
Hey deuce, you’re quite ignorant. A lot of guys love to have small things like fingers or toys up their butt. Do you know where the prostate is? Hetro_male already mentioned how most (straight) guys are cool with it.
I’m really interested in trying this with my boyfriend. Usually when giving him a blowjob, i would slowly use my fingers to just caress that part between the testicles and his ass, he doesn’t seem to mind that. So should I mention it to him, or when he next has his cock in my mouth, just discretly move down and lick his ass and see his reaction? I’d appreciate any replies.x
i’m not ignorant, you’re just gay or if your a girl then whatever guys you’re referring to are GAY plain and simple. i know where your prostate is and has a matter of fact that is the exact reason why most males avoid prostate exams for as long as possible. I’m not judging anyone so to each his own but lets just be real here…. IF there is a man that enjoys any kind of anal penetration then that man is a homosexual point blank period!!! Tell me how a straight man would enjoy having things stuck up his ass? Where is the logic in that? And your calling me ignorant? Ignorant would be an upgrade for you if you really believe that bullshit. I think you need to snap of it.. if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck.. then guess what?
@ megz
proceed with caution… i doubt if he would have a problem with you using your tongue on his ass, but the fingers is a whole nother story. you might want to do a little probing first because if it’s not something his is in to it could get really akward between you two.
Hey Nina (and all those who agree with her),
You guys are bang on (pardon the pun) as a happily married man there is nothing I love more when my wife decided to complete a little feliatio. Let’s ignore the fact that she gives the best head ever and focus on what she starting doing a few months ago.
Being a fag means that you like to suck and fuck men….to each there own. I have never sucked nor fucked a man, and really have no desire to do so. That being said while my wife is giving me the great head that she does, she will from time to time either apply pressure to my perimium or stick her finger up my ass and good fucking god there is no better orgasm than that. Really people I could shoot a bottle off a shelf ten feet away.
For those who have not tried it please do, for those who do it, trust me, your guys loves it; and for those who are afraid what have you got to lose, its a finger not the rambone!
i have had my ass licked by a women and it was one of the best sexual experences i have had yet i loved it… just wish more women would be up for doing it..
My boyfriend and I love ass play. Nothing weird about it, the only thing that makes it weird is the partner that makes you feel like your a freak for liking it.
You have to have a strong sexual connection to your partner to really get all of the benefits of this kind of play. I use small vibrators or bullets on my boyfriend, and he really loves it when one is in his ass while I am riding him. Doesnt mean your gay! That is so stupid! Your gay if you like men, case closed….not if you like things in your ass!
Gay or homosexuality is NOT defined by a specific sexual act but a PREFERENCE and ATTRACTION to the SAME SEX. A specific sexual activity may be common amongst homosexuals but it does not define ones sexuality. Gay men enjoy receiving oral sex. If a straight man enjoys receiving oral sex does that make him gay? Gay men enjoy penetrating their lover’s ass. If a straight man enjoys penetrating his girlfriends ass does that make him gay? If younaew going to define ones sexuality by a specific act then we’re all gay.
I love getting my salad tossed by a woman. I think it feels great. I am not gay and a man getting his salad tossed does not make him gay at all. As long as a guy isn’t doing it.
Of course my crack is shaved hairless, and I always make sure that my ass is very clean first. It is very pleasurable for me and I make sure that it is pleasureable for the woman.
I liked my boyfriends ass after I lost a bet with him and he loves it. I love doing this for him because it turns him on so much. I can’t keep myself dry down there just thinking about turning him on like this. I do agree that you have to be clean. We both love doing this for one another and it’s healthy sexually to find out what you like. This is the beauty of long term relationships. We obviously have a strong sexual connection and let me tell you he is all man. I can’t wait for him to stick his big long hook up my ass after he licks mine.
Look I’m a guy and I love having sex and licking a girls ass and I have a girl that loves licking my ass to and she loves fingering it so its sexy I love it and I love to give it theres no bad thing in licking ass its sexy!!!
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I’m a straight male, and I love licking ass, and love receiving it too. Of course, it needs to be clean clean clean! And I mean washed, not just toilet papered!
On the other hand, I do not like getting my ass fingered at all. Even the thought of it makes me squirm. Reminds me of a colonoscopy I had to have once. Ouch.
I guess when a girl starts to go down on my ass, I’m initially a little worried that she might get turned off (men’s asses aren’t as delicious looking as womens are they?) That might be one reason that some guys are hesitant about getting their asses licked!
I love beautiful, hot chicks. Always have. Theer’s nothing weird or gay about it.
A little technica info. The reason both sexes like it so much is that there are an increible number of nerves (erotic) in that area. Also both sexes are attarcted to rimming because of Pheromones. Large number produced in that area also. Notice how how dogs do…..Pheromones! We, my friends, are also animals. We react and respond in the same way as animals, unless of course, you’re inhibited.
i always shave everything down below 4 my gf,and she loves it.
i’ve had that 1 or 2 times and love it
its all so sensitive when she just gently licks it
Me and my bf have been together for four years and he loves having his ass licked and he absolutely loves a finger up there during a bj…it makes his dick much harder (because of a chemical that the prostate releases that is important in causing an erection, also one of the main reasons men experience impotency after a prostatectomy)and he’ll shoot twice as big a load. he isn’t gay and isn’t attracted to other men at all. He is just in tune with his sexuality and trusts me completely. also to all the peeps out there that think rimming and a finger in your ass make you gay it doesn’t. homosexuality means you are attracted to someone of the same sex, homo means same, hetero means different.
deuce, im calling you ignorant. homosexuality is where people are attracted to the same sex – it has nothing to do with where you put ur fingers. If a gay guy was a virgin you wouldn’t say he isn’t gay simply because he hasnt had a dick in his ass… idiot.
Anyway I dont think anybody can really say that most straight guys like it or dont, i think its really up to personal preference. I know I would NEVER go near somebodys a-hole, let alone kiss it or stick my tongue in it or finger it. gross man! so dirty and not in a good way! Practically eating shit!
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@L
Hey L,
“I don’t think its the “appearance” of being homosexual that most men are worried about. It’s only one thing that makes a man gay and that is actually having a sexual encounter with another man. So as long as its done by a woman then there’s nothing gay about it… right?” these are my exact quotes on this very same message board… so read first then criticize otherwise you are the ignorant idiot!! idiot!
I love licking my boyfriends ass ! He was scared at first but loves it. He has me do it to him when he is stressed. I also love to do it when he stands overme so then I can also suck his balls.
But overall , he said he loves getting his ass licked. ME though , I just love the smell ! the hot raunchy smell
I love having my ass licked and my lady loves it to. Go for it, shave him up and smash they inhibitions!
oh yeah my fellow males having your lady play with your ass will open the door to a whole new sex live, trust it did with me and im a real grouch.
I haven’t had this opportunity to have my wife like my ass yet; but she has fucked my ass with a dildo. That feels pretty damn good. I am going to ask my wife to lick my ass tonight.
the last girl i dated would lick my ass every now and then and it felt fuckin amazing. i was a little confused and embarassed the first time, but i won’t deny i was in heaven.
I fancy licking my gf’s ass and telling her to do it for me… but what exactly is the fun abt licking, the taste? the smell?
hanks for sharing your blog with all of us, very imformative.
I think that alot of men are homophopic and yet,believe that Lesbians are ok! ummm duh!! its the same thing! and I just think becuase many think lesbian love is ok but gay love isnt is because alot of men fantasize about being with two women, not two men.. but on the ass licking tip:
I do not think its gay! I, as a female i l0ve recieving it! whew! im getting wet just from the thought of it and my X loved getting lost in my big round brown booty and I was in heaven! also, I enjoy giving as well!! its a empowerment feeling I recieve and jus for a guy to moan and buckle is so0 freakin sexy! turns me on!! Its rare to find a guy who is into it because they feel if they like it, it makes them gay but its something you have to be comfortable with and take it slow.. Ladies…ease ur way to lickn the ass, lol… you never know! Ol’ boy reflexs may be fast and he may just knock you out! hahaha! kidding! well, maybe he will but the feeling of getting my pussy ate from the back and his tongue slippin back to the ass is grrrrrreeeeeat!!!=D
FYI there are a LOT of nerves around the anus for both men and women. Assuming you don’t have a mental hangup, having the region around your ahole stimulated is going to be pleasurable for a man or woman. My wife knows I have a much bigger orgasm when she reaches down and rubs around my anus while I am inside her (no matter orifice of hers I am in). I also like a little bit of her finger in there, but not too much because tbh it just don’t feel good for me to have something actually in my ass. But around it or on the outside, either finger or tongue, f yeah.
“Me and my bf have been together for four years and he loves having his ass licked and he absolutely loves a finger up there during a bj…it makes his dick much harder (because of a chemical that the prostate releases that is important in causing an erection, also one of the main reasons men experience impotency after a prostatecetomy)and he’ll shoot twice as big a venload.” Anastasia
Anastasia, I suggest you take a few minutes and learn how the prostate gland actually functions, because you are very misinformed. Please stop spreading your ignorance.
The main reason a prostatectomy may cause erectile dysfunction is damage done to nerve bundles near the prostate gland…which prevents/impedes blood flow to the corpora cavernosa in the penis.
Well me and my ex boyfriend were together 2 years and a half… one day outta the blue he asked me to lick his ass…. I was totally shocked and it kinda turned me on so I went for it… hey i liked it and continued to suck his dick! Well a couple of times later he asked me but far in the back of my head I wondered if he was Gay! EVEN THO IT COMPLETELY TURNED ME
Hey guys & gals, been married for years & been eating ass all the time, both ways…maybe it’s sick but it sure feels good
I love eating ass and having mine ate too, and always have. An ass is an ass and a tongue is a tongue, and it feels just as good regardless of whether it’s on a girl or a guy. But I DON’T like kissing a man or making out with a man! I only enjoy kissing and dating women. My X-GF liked eating ass too, & especially enjoyed it 69! Yes, it is not only possible, it’s rather easy to do, unless a real big belly gets in the way. A few pillows will make it more comfortable, & it’s F’n Awesome! I call it 69 Double Rimming, or a Double Butt Sandwich.
after some 10 months with my girlfriend i once asked her to go down, and guess what, i so fucking enjoyed it that ever since she’s doing it. it takes me a lot of time to cum after 3rd or 4th time so i ask her to blow me and when she goes down it cums immediately.
btw, i am keeping it clean although not waxing, i think waxing is the thing that sounds gay and totally not masculine.
im not gonna lie. im a guy and my girlfriend used to do that to me and tickle it while she gave me head and after a while she used her pocket vibrator to stimulate the edges and it probably was the best orgasm i’ve ever had in my life. im not gay and secure enought to admit the fact that it does feel awesome and if you have a guy youve been with for a while you should try this. . he will love it but probably not tell his friends.
one time i was eating my ex wifes ass , and she let a wet fart out tasted like shit.
i like the comment of freaky101 and some other people who have been real, any guy who has his assho;e kissed and fingered by his girl and doesnt feel gay, insecure or attempts it with a guy or the feeling to do so IS THE REAL MAN. “OUR FEARS IS WHAT WE ARE WEAK TO” and “WHEN YOU OVERCOME YOUR FEAR THEN YOU ARE FREE AND FROM IT”. im in my mid 40s. im not gay and have passed all ages of youthfull pressure and experimenting. i have liked ass lick,sucking and deep fingering for over 25yrs and never allowed myself to consider gay practise. it is only fun when someone i love does it and for me as a man is an expression of my partners desire for my body and willingness to please me. men have made passes at me at my early age (cause i have an attractive bum which my girlfriends and wife also admit), but all those passes where rebuffed and i have beatten and almost killed a guy who insisted to have me- thats how much i hate homos. couples should learn to express themslves fully and get their spouse know what they like and get it done. A Good and satisfying sex life contributes to 80% of marraige sucesses. DONT LET ANOTHER PERSON DISCOVER AND DO WHAT YOUR PARTNER LIKES OR HIS/HER FANTASIES BEFORE YOU,OTHERWISE YOU WILL SOON LOOSE YOUR SPOUSE OR LIVE IN A MISERABLE MARRAIGE/RELATIONSHIP. KEEP RELIGION OUT OF IT. IN MARRAIGE THERE ARE NO RESTRICTIONS TO EXPRESS LOVE OR THE ACT OF SEX. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.
IM WRITING FROM AFRICA.
FURTHER, TO WHAT I WROTE EARLIER, SOMETIMES WHEN PEOPLE, WRITE SUCH HYPOCRITICAL OR FUNNY STATEMENTS ABOUT SEXUALLITY, I JUST WONDER. MEN AND WOMEN HAVE SAME SEXUALLITY.THE DIFFERENCE IS JUST THE DICK. IF 90% OF WOMEN FROM MY FINDINGS LIKE HAVING THEIR PUSSY AND ASSHOLE LICKED AND FEEDLED WITH THEN WHAT MAKES ANYONE FEEL THE MEN SHOULD BE DIFFERENT? I LIKE MY ASS BEEN PLAYED WITH BY MY WIFE AND BEFORE NOW MY GIRLFRIENDS AND LIKE LICKING THIER ASSES TOO AND YOU GUESS WHAT: 70% OF GIRLS WHO I HAVE MET AND LIKE THEIR ASSES LICKED AT THE VERY FIRST TIME WITHOUT PRIOR DISCUSSIONS WHERE VERY CLEAN GIRLS, OUT OF THE OTHER 30% OF THOSE WHO RESCENTED IT AT FIRST, 22% OF THE 30% LIKED IT AFTER INSISTING ON A WASH AT THE BATH BEFORE IT,WHILE 5% WHERE SHY AT THE LEVEL OF INTIMACY IT EXPOSED THEM TO AND THE REMAINING 3% SAID IT WAS SWEET AND SAME TIME TICKKLED THEM TO LAUGH. NOW FOR GIRLS WHO HAVE LICKED ME, IM ALWAYS CLEAN BEFORE LOVEMAKING CAUSE I DONT BELIEVE IN QUICKKIES. 50% OF GIRLS WOULD INITIALLY RESENT IT(LICKING) BUT ABOUT 30% WILL INITIALLY PREFER THE FINGERING AT THE FIRST TIME YOU ASK FOR IT. HOWEVER, EVEN WHEN YOU DONT ASK, 60% OF GIRLS WILL PLAY AROUND THERE(THE HOLE)WHILE SUCKING YOUR DICK EVEN WITHOUT YOUR ASKING ON A GOOD DAY,ABOUT 50% OF THE 60% WILL SLIP THEIR FINGER IN YOUR ASSHOLE WHEN THEY SEE YOU LIKE IT. ONE THING I KNOW IS THAT 90% OF LADIES WANT TO PLAY A MNS ROLE IN BED-SEE THE MAN ENJOY,SCREEM AND BEG FOR MORE, THAT PLEASURE THEY GET WHEN THEY ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR ASS ESPECIALLY WHEN ITS YOUR TURN TO BEND OVER. ONLY LACK OF MALE CONFIDENCE,EGO OR MALE CHAUVINISM WILL MAKE A MAN FEEL UNCONFORTABLE WITH THAT.